Side effects...

There are lots of side effects we deal with in life. Every single thing we do has side effects. I generally only think about that when I am thinking about medications, but they really are everywhere.

I have had one crazy week! Heavy on the side effects.

Carlton left his insulated coat and overalls here. He called Scott and asked if he could "email them" to him at the ranch. Scott told him nope he couldn't but we could mail them. Side effects of a son who simply does not listen nor care to pay enough attention to the world around him...one of the reasons he is where he is...

Caleb left for Germany...a side effect of being in the Army. BTW...He is loving it, I think his actual words were "it's AWESOME". Another side effect of that same choice (being a neat soldier) is that Caleb will be deploying to Afghanistan way to soon for momma. Some effects are simply huge!

My sister Christie called today and she is out of prison. This sister is Seth's birth mom and the last time she was out she got pregnant with Seth. That has been over 8 years ago. The same side effect is likely with the same action and the same consequences apply(she cannot parent). Another prayer request(no more babies). I cannot think of a sweeter "effect" than my Seth, but I am ready for grandchildren, not starting over. That said, should need arise, it is not an option to leave a baby without family or in danger....again...another prayer request.

My daughter is marrying the man of her dreams...a wonderful thing! But the effects are still huge at this point to deal with:) A wedding, loss of daughter (well, loss of her being close to home), the gain of a neat new son!

I have been working with an unwed mother who worships with us. She desired to place the baby up for adoption. I spent months working with her....SO VERY PROUD OF HER!!...this week she changed her mind and I had to share that with the adopting family. Her circumstances have not changed....but peer and family pressure finally prevailed. Those effects, while not wholly mine, will last forever and make me sick and sad.

My side effects are really piling up. Such is life. I know that. But this week and crazy weeks like it sure do increase my time with God! God knows I have a point where "enough is enough" and I sure hope he thinks it's soon.